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Gay dating and hookup apps: how do they work?

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You may be wondering how apps like Grindr, Tinder, and Taimi all work?   See here for my review of the best apps.   There are two types of apps: Grid-based apps show a grid of guys, sorted by location - nearest to more distant, from left to right. Any  grid app allows instant contact with other users. Card-stack apps such as tinder display a stack of cards with user profiles and you then swipe left or right to indicate if you like them or not. The user cards presented are not sorted by distance, but rather in a randomized fashion. With these apps you will have to wait until the user you like also likes you before you can start chatting! Location All these apps use location  to help you find other users. Most apps will prompt you to turn on location on your phone if it's already off. The

Why you should call your ex a cucking funt

If you have just com e out of a relationship or marriage I bet there is a lot of things you want to say to your ex-partner. A mixture of anger, regrets, sadness and sorrow all mixed into one. To try and get over your relationship you can write a letter to your ex to help you get closure and say goodbye. I tried this myself. I wrote a letter to my ex-husband. I called him all sorts of things. Cucking funt. Wh*re. Sl*t. That was just the beginning. 24 pages later, and I am still not finished. I still have things I want to say.  Will you feel better after you have done this?  Absolutely . After I did this it felt like a load was lifted from my shoulders. Thoughts I had ruminating in my mind were gone since they were no down on paper instead of being rotated in my mind. It was as if so many of my thoughts that were running through my head on a circular basis, were suddenly gone.  Maybe you never got any closure? My ex-husband discarded me. One day, he stopped communicating. You can read

Goodbye ethnicity filter!

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Grindr has long since removed the Ethnicity Filter from its app. Still, every day there are a handful of users who are still looking for it. The search log for this article includes " grindr bring back ethnicity filter",  " dating apps that filter ethnicity" and even the somewhat questionable search term "race filter grindr".  The Ethnicity filter on Grindr let you include/exclude profiles based on their ethnicity such as Black, White and Latino. In the same search log I also spotted one person who searched for "how to find generous guys on grindr". Whoever you are - it is more likely that someone generous is a mature gentleman than a "guy" and no there is no way of searching for gentlemen with a solid bank account on Grindr. Sorry. Grindr doesn't even allow the word "generous" in the profile text. Back to the filter . Somet